Not all kids are the same, and neither should they be categorized the same. It is hard for some parents to talk about one of their children and not the others without feeling guilty. I was one of those parents and I still struggle at times, but believe me...I’m getting better at it! It’s kind of like getting away from the ‘everybody’s a winner’ in youth activities. Maybe everybody did a great job, but some do better, and there will be a winner! My middle boy has been phen